Stay Lit at Perspective

Hi, this is just another relationship-based article. It will not bring any change or transformation to the GDP of my Nation. But it might just transform someone’s social attitude towards themselves. Thought of the Day? “How well you handle your work shows your academic knowledge and skills. How well you handle your relationships, shows your upbringing” © Sk Muskan Tabasum Well, a lot of us weigh our value and worth, based on how somebody else treats us. After a relationship ends or a lover cheat on the partner, you would often find the other person screaming at the top of their voice (In Bollywood at least), “ mere pyaar mein akhir aisi kya kami reh gayi thi? ” I have seen the same resonance with my friends, juniors, seniors… etc. When a partner leaves or a relationship does not work, people often blame themselves. They feel- it was their fault, their drawback. It was their limitations that they could not stand up to the expectations of their partner. They feel that they w...

  It’s July 2025, and if somebody would have asked me before this day, what am I afraid of- I would take two hours and say, nothing. There is no specific thing that comes to my mind of which I am afraid of. My mother is cool. My sister is sassy. My brother is my second copy (revised edition). Spiders? Well, I accept the fact that I co-exist with them. Crocodiles? By God’s grace I do not have to meet and greet them in human or animal form regularly. Lions? I live with Leos! But today, I realized that I am afraid of misunderstandings. That is a part of our existence that can drive a person to hate you, to be against you, to become an enemy. In my book Kaliyuga On My Curls, I had added a note that Misunderstandings are like Brown-tinted glasses. It can change how you appear to a person. This note was a hard-earned learning of my growing up. All my life, I have been very annoyed at the lazy-witted people for their quick-judgement on me. Or anybody. I do not find it fair whe...

What happens when you see the world with one eye? I am not talking about the third eye. We fail at recognizing people and their real selves with both eyes. The third eye can’t save us in any manner. But then, what happens when you see the world with just one eye open? Like just one eye open. Physics has suggested. Primary class physics. Not alpha, beta, gamma physics. Primary physics. It has suggested that looking at things with one eye has a limited harm. It just causes the ‘loss of binoucular vision’ and your sense and ‘depth of perception’ gets compromised. Although, I have tried once judging myself, what happens when I look at one eye open. The most part that I want to see is visible. I can see at my front, I can see where I am walking and going. However, one of the sides goes missing. I can handle that unless I have to ‘interpret the scene’ and not ‘just’ look at it. Making decisions and walking on the pavement of one-sided stories can lead you straight to a pothole. Watchin...