Stay Lit at Perspective

  Not all of us are born with a silver spoon.  Manifesting a life, out of our natural cradle requires strength. You will be afraid of failure. You will be afraid of the answerability of your actions.  Not everything makes sense from point zero. What makes sense is your perseverance and consistency.  When you are willing to attract all that you dream garnished with hard work and prayers, things will work out. Things will find their way to you. Your dreams will find a way to manifest themselves.  Desire is not everything. You have to deserve what you want. You have to want it as much as breathing. Something that gives you sleepless nights is not the only reason why you would be given things on a silver plate with a silver spoon. What you do, and How you act in the broad daylight decides if you deserve your sleep-ridden desires.  Cosmic Powers will Play for YOU . In return you have to change the game in broad daylight. That is how you deserve it.  Fear is...

 Moving On doesn't work? try SELF REALIZATION. Try waiting for a call that would never come.  Try shouting over a Whatsapp audio and never sending it. Try waking up every morning with an anxiety to check if their 'dp' is still visible and you can still contact them.  Try that abrupt shift of you faith into anxiety. Try their "One call away" to "Can I call you once?" Try wondering "IF" they will reply or not instead of "WHAT" they will reply back. Try listening to "Ami dur hote tomake dekhechi" from "oo haareya main dil tujhpe" Try fighting to stay in love with them, against yourself. You think Moving On is tough? Try your self respect getting scattered, getting tore apart, brought down.  Your Self Realization will help you move ahead. Not friends, not memes, not a new love interest.  Just That.

 People have unnecessarily glorified solitude without knowing how scary it is.  I mean standing up for them is beautiful. Standing up for someone, with them, by their side is peaceful.  Yes, you want to be alone. You don't want an accountability partner. You want no one to know you. And yet, them saying "I am here for you" is bigger than any promise ever made. It is more special than any vow anyone swoon before.  It is like SRK singing,  "...Chaahe jo tumhe, pure dil se Milta hai woh mushkil se, Aisa jo koi kahin hai, Bas wohi sab se haseen hai..." Yes, you are broken.  Having less to speak with is all that you wish for. But, know who to leave behind and whom not to. Not every soul deserves to suffer through you collateral damage.

There is nothing called fear. It's just a lack of faith. A lack of faith on yourself, or on a person. A lack of self confidence. A lacking of belief on the power of your skills. Fear, is just the basic feeling which comes out of the anxiousness of an unseen, unknown future.  You fear when something changes & you don't have the least idea of how are the winds going to sail you. Fear is the reaction when you give in to the uncertainty and uncontrollability of things happening in your life. Fear has no independent existence. It is but a lack of faith on yourself.  When you wish for a definite and exact outcome, but you cannot assure it for yourself, there comes fear. Fear is the but a lack of faith on the existential possibility of your desires. When you conjure up images that are opposite to your dreamland, to your wishing well.  When those contradictory images look more real and probable, we fear.  If you are getting this, you'd understand that there c...

Forgive yourself, ...If you've given much importance to someone who couldn't value it. Forgive yourself, ...If you had asked for an honest relationship from a confused person. Forgive yourself ...If you've asked nothing more than they assured you, they would... But they didn't. Forgive yourself.  It's your fault.  Your expectations were right. But the person you chose was wrong. Forgive yourself. It will relieve the strain. 

If someone you love, starts building walls around themselves. Help them with that. Help them even if they don't want to include you.  Let them know, that they can come out to you with their emotions, without prior justification & fear of rejection.  Help them build a strong wall And remember you.. That's Love Too. 

A part of me keeps telling me, my life has been fair. Another part says, “you witch, how can you be happy with that loss of hair!” While most books keep preaching us about the essentialism of good thinking, positive vibes and happy feelings. It is not really easy to fight the inner demons. How can it be! They speak the truth- goals are not shaping up; roads are not being manifested. Relationships are breaking, friendship are nothing more than memorable wreckages! And here when everyone is leaving your hand, there are times you don’t want to be seen. Times when you wish you could die silently in sleep- get a heart attack for all that heart ache. And not see the sun next day. But even if that’s what you wish, is that what you really want? Even if we keep asking people to leave us alone, do we really want to be lonely? Inner demons are smart. They know what to feed us in times of despair because they are born in the inside. So what? You can ask, “Then why the inner angels can’t ke...