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Why Moving Ahead is more important than Moving On.

  It is like a ‘backspace’ and a ‘cancel’ option through online transactions. Suppose you are shopping four or five items on Myntra, and suddenly you feel the need to evaluate your selections. It can be the size of a t-shirt. It can be the quantity of a product. Or you might wish to check more additional vouchers over your shopping items. But over all these various possibilities you will not cancel the entire transaction and reselect items from the wish list to the shopping bag. (This is not a brand endorsement. So buyers from different online sites, please focus!) It is a simple game. All you need to do is a press the ‘Go Back’ arrow and make the needful changes. So is Life. Moving Ahead in life means getting rid of the clutter which life has brought with itself. Perhaps you are experiencing conflict in a certain areas of your life. Your choices are not in alignment with the effects you had considered. You are reconsidering your opinions about a person, or a business deal, or c...

The Who and How a Person is.

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New relationships often fill flowers and butterflies in the cup. The lesser you know a person, the more interesting they appear. And once you know them, you know them. But what does it really take to know a person. Because even after spending a lifetime with someone you might feel, you still don’t know them. And sometimes it just sounds a click. The elements which brings a person close to you is ‘who they are’. And that which either keeps them in your life or drifts you two apart is ‘how they are’. And this might sound confusing. But honestly, it’s simpler than you think. The ‘who’ part in a person includes the things that they choose and refuse, their likes and dislikes. The elements that appear on the surface right when you meet them. Your friend is kind, your spouse is generous, they love hearing music, they like rides, she helps poor people, he enjoys socializing. The ‘who’ of a person is what attracts or repels you with them. When you two think that you share a similar vibe, i...