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Are you Seeing the World with a One-Sided Vision?

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What happens when you see the world with one eye? I am not talking about the third eye. We fail at recognizing people and their real selves with both eyes. The third eye can’t save us in any manner. But then, what happens when you see the world with just one eye open? Like just one eye open. Physics has suggested. Primary class physics. Not alpha, beta, gamma physics. Primary physics. It has suggested that looking at things with one eye has a limited harm. It just causes the ‘loss of binoucular vision’ and your sense and ‘depth of perception’ gets compromised. Although, I have tried once judging myself, what happens when I look at one eye open. The most part that I want to see is visible. I can see at my front, I can see where I am walking and going. However, one of the sides goes missing. I can handle that unless I have to ‘interpret the scene’ and not ‘just’ look at it. Making decisions and walking on the pavement of one-sided stories can lead you straight to a pothole. Watchin...

Not all Dots have to be Good Dots!

A very close friend of mine keeps saying, "I'll never hurt her (his girlfriend, of course); I'll never bring tears to her eyes, never cause her pain..." blah, blah, blah.  Is that even real? Yes it is. But is it practical? Noooo, please. A very surreal mistake we keep making in our precious bonds, is we expect way too much of ourselves, more than the other person expects from us. Then, we inevitably increase their hopes. And then we fail to keep those hopes alive. And then curse ourselves. And then runaway from that relationship! Hang on dude... Why??? Not because you are a failure, no. But you failed. You failed at being successful at something which was meant to collapse.  When you tie close knots with someone, it is obvious that at times the knot will cause strain, get stretched and push and pull you. That doesn't signal that you need to break that attachment.  In every adventure of life, we collapse when our hopes collapse. When the other person is hurt, we tr...