Stay Lit at Perspective

New relationships often fill flowers and butterflies in the cup. The lesser you know a person, the more interesting they appear. And once you know them, you know them. But what does it really take to know a person. Because even after spending a lifetime with someone you might feel, you still don’t know them. And sometimes it just sounds a click. The elements which brings a person close to you is ‘who they are’. And that which either keeps them in your life or drifts you two apart is ‘how they are’. And this might sound confusing. But honestly, it’s simpler than you think. The ‘who’ part in a person includes the things that they choose and refuse, their likes and dislikes. The elements that appear on the surface right when you meet them. Your friend is kind, your spouse is generous, they love hearing music, they like rides, she helps poor people, he enjoys socializing. The ‘who’ of a person is what attracts or repels you with them. When you two think that you share a similar vibe, i...

Life stays on wheels. We take a break. You and I take a break from responsibilities and pleasures. Because a continuous of everything becomes a load. Be it a work or merriment.  We all need a break from social protocols to be ourselves. Sometimes we are so spiraled with the wheels of life that taking out times for ourselves feels like stealing. People get hurt. Lovers fail to co-operate. Parents disapprove. Friends fall apart. But it's just a break. Isn't it? You and I just need a break from social spirals. We end up stealing time from our own timeline. And that can happen on your couch or with money on your pouch!! We go to a place. It doesn't have to be beautiful. Lest it suits our vibe, our energy. We enjoy our short trip. But no matter how cool, serene, joyful and happening that trip (or a person) was, we don't stay there. We have to come back to life. Because life stays on wheels, not on brakes. We take a break so we can keep staying on the wheels.