Accept the Change

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Unless you Accept the Change.
You will never be able to Become the Change.

We often get fiddled when our relationship dynamics change. That destroys us inside out... To lose a close person or realise they are not comfortable being around you anymore. Realising you are not their first priority or they won't choose you over others. 

That hurts. Yes. 
But we often amplify our pain by considering that this is permanent and things will never be the same anymore.

You need to accept the change of behaviour and circumstances that life has brought on your platter. Taste it. if you won't taste it, how would you know whether it is up to your choices or not? 
And once you know it doesn't suit you, maybe it's less salty or more bitter. 
Add whatever flavour you wish to keep it going on. That new flavour can be departure, a momentary gap in the relationship or a gift to renew the bond. 

Unless you accept the change. How do you plan to change what you don't like. 
Denial would keep you in a state of disgrace, disappointment and dilemma.
Acceptance would make it simpler, smoother and subtle. 

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