Does the Sigma Male exist?

 Women gentry have been an exotic creation of God. Unlike other species who identify threats and friends on the basis on behavioral patterns, we women find it enjoyable at engaging into a thorough disrespect of our own kind- the womankind. The words are harsh. But truth is always harsh.

The idea of a Sigma Male who is tough to all other girls but a 'simp' to you has been the most idealistic approach of the 21st century Women. Not only do we fall head over heels at the idea of a 'tough man' but, we relish the sight when such a 'tough man' shows his toughness at the cost of another woman's honour.

My English teacher had once told me, that the idiom, "woman are an enemy of one another" is a farce. No other humankind, or race can imbibe the idea of the pain of labour, of menstrual cycle or various phases though which a girl develops womanhood. Of course he is correct. But what is more correct is the fact that how envy is the opium of womankind. We speak of #feminism and don't think twice before being "the other woman" in any woman's life. We don't feel the need to be loyal to our kind.

The global appeal has dramatically shifted to the idea of the existence of a 'sigma male' who is gentle to you and mental to all other girls around him. Sounds exotic to me as well, can't dream of a better loyal partner really. Howsoever, this exotic-imaginative-appealing manly figure is nothing but another patriarchal sham. Another patriarchal construction to cover up the flaws of men gentry. 

What is a Sigma Male?
Just another Man with Commitment Issues
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A Sigma Male is only a lie men put up on their matrimonial resume to cover up the flaws they had been putting various girls through. A Sigma Male is only another patriarchal construction through which women feel empowered at the dishonour of another of her fellow womankind. 

Have you ever wondered, why the Woman who are madly in love with the Man who calls himself 'Sigma' or in more desi style 'Sakht Launda' are after a man who doesn't respect her AT ALL?

The man with whom you are proud to walk along with has mostly kept girls in his bandwith until he found you. And I know it feels extraordinarily special when he sugarcoats his mistakes and tells you, "Honey, you have changed me". You should probably give a minute consideration of what he had changed from. I don't imply that his past should effect your present and future together. But these are one of my favourite Agatha Christie lines:

People never change, they just become better at hiding who they really are

The Sigma Male you can't lay your eyes off, might have been one such guy who has played with the emotions and feelings of many many other girls and left them when he couldn't find a stable committing source for them. That is not something you should be proud of Woman. 

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