Dive Out before Time-Out

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We all love to sound practical. We love it when someone compliments us on our "sorted mind" & decisiveness. But, how far do we react practically when life goes out of track?

We are aware that nothing in life is permanent. But then, where does this awareness blows away when the line of expiry date comes near?

Do we react practically then? 
Do you?

It happens a lot. You have invested yourself a lot on something or (someone). But now, it's on the edge of a dead end. And it hurts. Realising that all your efforts would dwindle hopelessly & nothing would stay- HURTS. BIG TIME!
And it doesn't matter, how carefully or carelessly you had manifested that. Be it a assignment, a project, a business deal, your relationships- anything, just anything. What has to break, would eventually break. 

Even a house falls down. Thanks to Earthquakes? No. No thanks. One can never thank the bitter realities. No matter how much you say, change is necessary & good. At some places in life, change is unwelcomed. 

Broken realities, damages memories destroy us. We keep asking- I wish it had just stayed a little longer. But, longer doesn't imply forever. Right?
When you wish for "longer", you need to remind yourself: longer is only a proportionate extension. Just an extension!

For instance, you went to a three hour concert. The vibe is good. The hype is increasing & the concert extends for another 45 minutes. But he sensible, can you ask the artists to continue for another three hours? 

When a relationship collapses, we all wish for a longer. But sometimes it's better not to stretch till the 'dead-dead-end'. 
You went for scube diving. You have enjoyed your full. But before point blank, you need to retreat. If you want to keep your diving experience beautiful, you need to come back to the shore before the cylinder runs out of oxygen. Otherwise your longer can turn into a no longer. 

To save your beautiful memories from bitter experiences, retreat before the cylinder runs out of oxygen. 

DIVE OUT BEFORE TIME OUT. 



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